Excuses! – I Dont Want to Know

For the past 6 months, I have been doing a leadership course that focuses on raising transformational leaders that will be able to go out in the market place to positively influence the different spheres of society in which they work. The training was organised in a way that you attend a 2 days workshop once a month and then have assignments to work on during the month.

The starting workshops within the course were the most depressing and they truly aroused a certain level of anger within me. The course content covered areas discussing Africa’s historical problems and doing a post-mortem of how we had gotten into such a state. We looked at the role of leadership or its absence, the greed, selfishness and personality egos. By the 2nd set of workshops, we went beyond the blaming of the political leadership for Africa’s problems and discovered that all of us were partly responsible for the mess on the continent. The rest of the workshops focussed on equipping us with the required skills to do something in making our continent a better place.

Through the equipping process, I got to know that to be transformational in the community required that one first masters themselves. I got to know what some of my limiting beliefs were, understood my personality with its strength and weaknesses, and also got to correct some of the doctrinal errors in my faith. Through reflective thinking, I have gotten to deal with many of the past personal and business mistakes of my life and allowed myself to heal and let go of all the things that were not working and focus on what will work.

The most challenging workshop, i.e. The History Makers Training (HMT), was the last one, a 3 days and 3 nights camp out of town at the Ankrah Foundation hill in Mukono just above the Christian University. I checked into my hotel room on Thursday evening, confirmed the comfort of my bed unknown to me that I was not going to need the appropriate services of that bed.

Right after dinner, we got into the conference room and it was at that point that I got to know that i had forgotten to come along with my laptop. Everything about the training rotates around the assignments you do online. At the same time I got reminded that we are trained to be NO-Excuse leaders and not having a laptop was no excuse not to submit my assignments. Being too late to travel back home, I called home and arranged for it to be delivered in the morning. The dilemma at that time was how I would get through with my assignments of the first night. A good Samaritan loaned me their Tablet and i managed to manoeuvre myself with it to work on my assignments. We somehow all ended up staying in the conference room working all night to get our assignments done. I managed to finish at about 7am then started struggling to get it submitted online. With the deadline at 8am, I was successful in submitting at 8:05am. I thought my effort would be appreciated since the assessors knew my predicament. I hit a low point when my work was rejected meaning I got no grading because of late submission.

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A little self-talk helped me recover my composure, got my attention back into the happenings in the class. Life Lesson: This act made me think about many areas of my life that could have gone wrong because of my failure to be intentional and disciplined. I was well aware that I would be attending this workshop a month before, why did I not prepare for it? “How could I go to dig without my hoe?”, I remembered the many people that owe me money that I have always be lax with, listening to all their excuses only to end up losing in the end? I remembered the many flimsy excuses from subordinates that I always entertained trying to be very considerate eventually affecting productivity? This act that I thought was uncalled for by the assessors ended up being one of the sources of my greatest learning.

Learning, discussions and assignments continued through the day until Friday 5pm when I excused myself to try and catch a one hour nap. Dinner was expected at 6:30pm so I was supposed to be back by that time. I set my alarm and got into the nap. I am not sure if the alarm worked or not but by the time I got up, it was after 7pm. The very hungry me was too late to catch supper so I had to survive on an empty stomach through the night. Life Lesson: however justified you may feel you are, opportunities will not wait for you.

We get into the 2nd night continuing with Lectures, discussions, learning movie and assignments. We worked on the assignments again through the night struggling with power blackouts in the night. We had to keep moving between halls based on what section of the facility had power. By 8am, the deadline time, I had managed to submit 5 of them but failed to finish 2 others. I was penalized for not fully submitting. Life Lesson: we are not interested in knowing that you worked hard through the night. We also don’t want to know that this is your 2nd sleepless night in a row. What we want is the finished assignment completed and submitted….period.

Saturday program continued without any big eventful occurrences. This time I did not get a free hour to nap as I was busy with the day’s assignments that had to be submitted by 6pm. But even if I had, I was not going to risk missing dinner again or even submit myself to penalties of coming late for the evening session which was meant to start at 7pm.

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Saturday night program after the lectures had us watching a movie about Gandhi. Quite an inspirational story but my body was tired. Yet I had to do everything to keep awake or else I would not be able to work on the assignment in relation to the movie. I stood inside the hall, took a cup of coffee but my eyes were still in a shutdown mode. I got more creative when I decided to walk out of the hall into the cold outside and then watched the movie through the window. This now looked very funny when I saw a photo of myself from one crafty character who decided to photograph me in my predicament. After the movie, I knew I would not be able to sit through the night productively. This time I opted to go for a one hour nap. But to ensure that I am able to wake up, I had to set my phone alarm, the reading tab alarm and my laptop one to maximum volume and the noise they together generated at 2am did not disappoint. We worked through the night again and by 8 am had been successful in submitting all the assignments for the night. Life Lesson: When you know what let you down before, take more precaution so that you don’t get let down again.

I am truly amazed at what the body can be stretched to do. Never in a lifetime did I ever think that I could work through the night up to morning without sleep.  I never thought that I could continue working for up to 84 hours with less than 3 hrs of sleep. Life Lesson: Of course it has made me reflect since I usually do my average 8hrs of sleep every day. Could it be that I am spending too many hours in sleep? Could I shorten my sleep pattern and utilize some of this recovered time to do more?

The HMT journey has been a life altering experience, an opportunity to challenge and stretch myself beyond anything i thought possible. Taking this journey was taking a stand for transforming my life. The HMT program itself felt unreasonable and challenging by Friday mid-morning, but by Sunday evening, I saw that it had been one of the most incredibly rewarding experiences I could have chosen to take on at this time in my life.

HMT has forced me to rethink many of the concepts I had picked up from my career background. I am getting to break down many limiting walls around me, including the way I relate and communicate with people. I have been able to rethink through what my values in life are, to understand them better and make them relevant in directing the way I live life.

The process has caused me to take an honest inventory of my inner self. My relationship with my friends, my family, and most importantly, with myself are undergoing an incredibly positive transformational experience that will last a lifetime.

I wanted to grow, be challenged, and discover what was holding me back – to reach ever higher. The HMT camp has been an experiential learning process, a laboratory for self-reflection, in which my entire being was engaged in the work of discovery. I have discovered what my true passion is through the workshop and training. I have gained true clarity on the direction and vision of my life. It is an event that I consider life altering in the most powerful way on my leadership and transformational journey. I do highly recommend the full course for those who are eager to offer meaningful leadership in our nation.

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23 thoughts on “Excuses! – I Dont Want to Know

  1. 😂😂😂😂😂 this was really interesting read. Loved the openness and honesty. Thank you for sharing this life lesson ❤️

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  2. Woow, 84 hours on 3 hours sleep. Not only am I amazed at yr managing to stretch yr day/night…but I am also wondering how truly productive were you and when compared to the rest of the class …did all of you sacrifice your nights to do these assignments..?

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    1. I actually got to know that the camp is designed to keep you awake and working. It is has something it does to your psyche when you go through the process. The full team of 18 of us kept awake apart from a few speedy fellows who would manage some 2hrs of sleep per night.

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  3. Very interesting. I do believe we put limitations on ourselves through excuses. I feel that an excuse is just a way to get out of doing something that is not comfortable to us.

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  4. Thank you my brother what you have shown us is the untapped capacity in many of us that could have been put to use in our generation bringing hope transforming lives only if we will over come the love of ease ! This is inspiring
    Tim Babatunde

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  5. This is good write up, well done for your great effort. History makers weekend is both a challenge and a learning experience.

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  6. This has really encouraged me more. Am a person who takes decisions in many things and when I’m sure God spoke, No excuses. The Mega Event and Tours we hold of “THE HEART WORSHIP BANQUET” became too heavy for me because I solicit funds my accounts get empty, yet few serious faithful partners to hold the vision… It has blessed thousands and we don’t charge people for entrance but few who are willing to join us. The lack of money could be the exact reason for my Excuse that I quit until God provides. Instead I keep moving and focused following the Father’s heart which is our Motto:. I want to thank you for this post one of my fellow minister and partner sent to us in our group… Am more encouraged to follow and do God’s will in my ministry no matter the challenges! No more and room for EXCUSES yes I believe in this post!.

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  7. Good read. My takeaways are being limitless and resilient. As they say, If you want to change the world start by managing yourself.

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  8. Very nice read. It is true that what we tell our brains we can or canr achieve, is what it’ll perceive.
    We are capable of much more than we can imagine.

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  9. Michael I am more than convinced that you need to write more. You are just three days away from HMT and akready your experience is an encouragement to many. Keep writing my brother.

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  10. Micheal very nice piece and i can attest to everything you have said since i was with you those nights . U were truly inspiring through the course. I particularly liked the creativity of watching that movie with Body out in the cold,Head inside the room through the window to keep awake . A no excuse leader

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  11. Very nice read. I should endeavour to take up the program after your narrative of experience and that of my OB, Alex Asiimwe
    The good thing is that I don’t enjoy sleep to much. Lol

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